Ever had that feeling when you want someone so much but you know you can't have them but you need them and you try everything but its too hard and your only option is to give up?
That need and want to have that special someone to love, hold, kiss etc. And even if its not love at first sight you hope it will happen soon. Possibly tomorrow, in a month or even a few years, whenever, but you keep hoping its someday soon. However, I can't promise you it will, but I can promise you that if you never say never, it is possible.
You hate hearing those cliché songs about boy meets girl, you are jealous of that one girl in that movie, TV series or book who gets the gorgeous guy, you get jealous of your friend who has a boyfriend who she is constantly texting and way to busy to see you and you are either head over heels for someone but you keep telling yourself that it will never happen, cause he's doesn't notice you, cause he doesn't think your pretty, he only likes the 'popular' girls...BLAH, BLAH, BLAH.
All of that butterflies-in-your-stomach garbage is just in our heads. Now, I’m not saying I’m the expert when it comes to relationships and love but I know for a fact everyone has felt this way for someone at least one or twice and sometimes all the time. And I’m going to admit that I’m been in the same boat and have been a few times in my 15 years of my life.
I want to meet that gorgeous ‘prince charming’ guy who is like Liam Hemsworth and sleeps on the beach with you or is like Channing Tatum and writes letters to you from war or like Taylor Lautner who lets you take his shirt off whenever he wants to run around but really you have to come back to today, in reality. We are in a society where movie storylines and clichés do NOT exist. But congratulations if your boyfriend DOES sparkle in the sunlight or runs in slow motion to give you that perfect goodbye kiss every time you leave him…it shows that your are very, very LUCKY.
However, boys will always be boys. They will also complicate the relationship that you practically control. Yes, boys can be smelly, annoying, rude, and hormonal and play COD and say nothing but I love you once and go back to being himself with ‘da boys’. But us, as girls can get past this stage of ‘ugh, I give up on boys’ and make sure that you meet that special someone and not sit in your room staring at posters of Justin Bieber and Shia La Beouf and writing on paper love hearts and what your name would look like with their surname.
Now, I’m not going to finish this by telling you ways you can find that special someone but I am going to explain how you can avoid your chances from being ruined. Firstly don’t aim to get the guy with the highest status in life (e.g. Actor, Football Champion,), don’t sulk after every time you see your friend and they blab on about their perfect love life – uhh, be happy for them, don’t start talk to as many guys as possible to see which one will eventually give in to asking you out, don’t try and get or flirt with your friends ex or even your friends boyfriend whilst they are dating to try and get them to want you and finally don’t start liking the same bands that this one guy likes or wear the same brand that he does to try and get his attention.
What guys, I believe, see in a girl is who they really are. Yeh, fair enough they don’t show it or say it. But many of them look for that. And I know there are occasional guys who only choose girls who have big boobs or long legs etc, that’s not the point. What I am saying is that the guy who is most likely to be your ‘special someone’ will be that guy who talks to you like he wants to be friends, tells his friends that he likes you cause your hot but really he likes your cause of that dimple on your left cheek and how you like to be who you want to be and he will definitely be a guy who doesn’t tell his friends everything you do and make time for you even if his friends get mad. If some guy you know is doing these things, he is mostly likely in love with you or likes you and definitely wants to go out with you. So take that chance of dating and you never know where one date can go, and if it does fail there are PLENTY more fish in the sea. PLENTY MORE.
So, to end this, remember to never give up when it comes to LOVE. Don’t become depressed over it and definitely don’t try SO hard for someone. Be yourself and let LOVE happen. Let it hit you without it being planned. And trust me, when it happens you will know, because when you fall in love, you fall forever.
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